Garrett loves on Josiah--a sweeter cat would be hard to find. |
In our first apartment building—the first home I remember— my mom and I
found a kitten that had been abandoned and was sick. Its eyes were goopy—and it
was obviously in need of nourishment. It is possible that it hadn’t even been
weaned from its mother. Try as we might, we couldn’t nurse the poor thing all
the way back to health, and it died the next day. But during that time, we
showed it love and kept it warm. I saw the compassion in my mother’s eyes and
how desperately she wanted to save that small creature. I remember crying but
still being glad that we had rescued the kitten from the cold, dark stairwell.
I was five years old, and this was a life lesson I would never forget.
At the age of six, I moved with my family from the city of Portland to
the coastal town of Florence. My parents, me…and our lively orange Persian,
Cricket Elvis. (We had tacked on the middle name because of a distinctive
series of movements Cricket would perform while standing on his back legs and
batting at a toy on a string.) Cricket was an indoor kitty in the city, but in
the slower-paced town of Florence, we began letting him outside. Unfortunately,
he didn’t quite know how to deal with Highway 101—and one day he tried to cross
it. My first official pet was suddenly gone, and I was heartbroken. I remember
my dad digging a very deep hole—and crying. We all did. We loved Cricket, and
he had brought much joy into our lives. Those fond memories would always stay
with us.
I missed Cricket a lot. A few months after losing him, my dad and I went
to deliver some wood to a customer—I decided at the last minute to accompany my
dad. It just so happened that these customers had a cat for which they were
hoping to find a good home. I immediately fell in love with the very friendly
male cat, who was white with orange only on his tail (in a tabby-type pattern) and
the tips of his ears. And he had blue eyes. I begged my dad to allow me to have
him. Defenseless to the persuasive tactics of his animal-loving little girl,
Daddy soon caved. And we arrived back home with our new family member, whom I
named Powderpuff.
Life with Powderpuff was just as entertaining as it had been with
Cricket, if not more. He was extremely affectionate—and we taught him to “attack”
using a stuffed Snoopy dog, a hilarious endeavor to say the least. But the one
thing I treasure most about Powderpuff is how he responded one time when I was
very sick. I had a fever and was simply weak. All I could do was lie in bed.
Being a side-sleeper, I remember facing the wall in my bed. Powderpuff quietly
joined me, lying back to back to with me and did not leave my side until I was
better. It brings tears to my eyes to this day to recall what a loving cat he
was. He died when I was nine, we think of Distemper, and joined Cricket in
kitty heaven. Of all the pet cats I grew up with—and there were many—he was my all-time
favorite.
It was maybe a year later that we decided to take on another pet cat—this
time it was a female, black with a bit of white. We got her from some folks
who’d had her long enough that she knew her name—Baby—so we kept it. Baby was a
smart cat. She seemed to know her p’s and q’s around the busy road and stayed
where it was safe. Baby was the proverbial mama cat. Since my family couldn’t
afford to have her spade, I soon got to learn all about the “circle of life.”
She had some awfully cute kittens, and we managed to find homes for them.
Baby moved with us twice, finally taking up residence in Mapleton—with more
country-ish surroundings. There she had a gray and white male in one of her
litters that my dad took an instant liking to. He claimed that this cat was “very
intelligent” and dubbed him “Professor.” It seemed to prove true. Professor
would shake hands, and sometimes he would respond in meow with uncannily human-like
inflection when spoken to.
Baby was with our family for many years. I was in my teens when she began
to show signs of decline, including a lack of interest in eating. A rather
private and aloof creature, she one day wandered off and never came back. She
was an alpha kitty of many, strong-willed and dignified—in many ways,
respectable. She would be missed but not in the same way as Cricket and
Powderpuff had been.
Professor remained, even long after I had left my parents’ home. He
followed in his mother’s pawprints, becoming the leader of “the pack.” By this
time, my parents lived up a country road, surrounded by trees and bordered by a
creek. There was a lot of territory for a cat to roam about in. There were
somewhere around five or six cats, but Professor clearly stood out as the “top
cat”—adventurous yet deeply attached to his human masters. He was, as my dad
always said, “quite a cat.”
When Byron and I moved into our first apartment, we brought a kitten with
us. We thought it would be humorous to give him a dog name, so we called him “Scooby.”
We had a couple other kitties after him for short periods of time, but Scooby
was one that left an impression on our hearts. He was playful, and his eyes had
a sort of “pull-at-your-heartstrings” quality. Even if he did naughty things,
we simply couldn’t stay mad at him. Not even when he climbed up the trunk of our
first Christmas tree and knocked it over, globe ornaments rolling everywhere. Through
sharing the responsibilities of caring for Scooby, Byron and I were drawn
closer as a couple—and we gained some insight into what might be some of the
other’s strengths and weaknesses down
the road—as parents.
By the time we had children, Byron and I had both decided we were “cat
people” rather than “dog people.” So once we lived in a large enough house and our
little girls wanted a pet, we made a trip to the Humane Society to find the
perfect kitty. We ended up deciding on two, a brother and sister—gray tabbies.
The tag on their cage said “Renny and Randy.” We didn’t care for those names,
so instead let the girls name the kittens. The boy was to be “Koko” and the
girl “Biranda.”
Biranda was very skittish—she would rarely let any of us get close to her. We wondered if she’d been abused. Koko,
on the other hand, was extremely loving and cuddly—he reminded me a lot of
Powderpuff in that way. Biranda passed away from unknown causes during the
first few months that we had her. I am confident that with more time we could
have helped her to overcome her fears. Biranda, to me, will always be a
reminder of what fear does—it pushes us away from those who care most about us
and causes us to dwell inwardly on our anxious thoughts. God wants to set us
free from all fears and to know His perfect love, just as we wanted Biranda to
know ours.
Koko made two moves with us over the course of the next few years. When
we moved to some apartments—our first residence in West Salem—he had to adjust
to being an indoor-only cat. This proved to be easier said than done, and he
did get out a few times. But he always came back. Until one time. We searched high and low—but no sign of Koko.
He had been a friend to all three of our kids, adjusting quickly to a
rambunctious, roving Josiah and not balking when carried incorrectly. He never
scratched or acted hostile. He never even clawed the furniture! In the spirit of Professor, he was an intelligent feline
and could actually open doors!
Since Koko, our family has been blessed with the likes of Precious and
Garrett. Garrett is highly affectionate—to the point of being “needy,” and
Precious, who is several years his senior, is a bit more choosy with whom she
decides to love on. She is also generous though, as she had to deal with
Garrett joining the household where she’d been the only cat for several years—she
was a bit crotchety at first but has adjusted well and seems more than willing
now to share her position of honor. In fact, she looks out for Garrett—and if
he’s off roaming and she doesn’t know where he is, Precious expresses obvious
concern. Precious is adept at killing bugs, especially spiders, while Garrett
is a pro at dispatching rodents. Through Precious I am reminded that one’s
character can change—and that vulnerability leads to increased relationship.
Garrett’s persistence in “getting to know” Precious encourages me to not give
up on others—to keep on loving and believing for good things.
Why have I bothered to tell you all these details about family pets? My
point is this—each pet (speaking of the four-legged varieties) has a unique
personality and brings a one-of-a-kind element to one’s life. I would go so far
as to say that God uses them to minister to the heart in key ways, just as He
uses various people to minister to us at critical points in life’s journey. Each
one leaves a mark, an imprint on the heart that enriches our lives and echoes
the goodness and providence of God.
1 comment:
I love this story of all the different kitties. I feel like cats are a lot like humans in the sense that they all have personalities that are very unique to each one individually. So great.
I love BOTH our cats we have now and I think I will carry on the tradition of being a "cat family" with my future kiddos and partner.
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